Getting Started
From registration to your first match - here's how it works
Create your profile with basic info and verify your phone number. No lengthy questionnaires - just the essentials to get started.
Choose your event and secure your spot. Some events are free, while others have a small fee that includes welcome drink, activities, and our matching service.
Attend your event, meet amazing people, and if there's mutual interest, we'll connect you within 24 hours.
What to Expect at the Event
Every Fern Dating event follows our proven format for success
Arrive 15 minutes early for check-in and get comfortable in our carefully selected venue. Our hosts will explain the evening and answer any questions.
Meet 7-10 potential matches in 4-minute conversations. Our timer ensures everyone gets equal time, and conversation prompts help break the ice naturally.
Mark your matches privately. If there's mutual interest, we'll share contact information within 24 hours so you can plan that first real date.
A Typical Evening Timeline
6:45 PM - Arrival
Check-in and venue orientation
7:00 PM - Speed Dating
10-minute conversations with 7 potential matches
8:30 PM - Social Hour
Casual mingling with drinks and light refreshments
Tips for a Great Experience
Make the most of your speed dating evening with these helpful tips
Before the Event
Arrive 15 minutes early for a relaxed check-in
Dress comfortably but put-together - business casual works great
Bring your phone for verification at check-in
Come with an open mind and positive attitude
During Conversations
Ask open-ended questions about interests, passions, and experiences
Be yourself - authenticity is more attractive than perfection
Listen actively and show genuine interest in their responses
Keep it light and fun - save deep topics for future dates
Common Questions
What if I'm nervous?
Everyone feels a little nervous - it's completely normal! Our hosts create a welcoming environment, and the icebreaker activities help everyone relax. Remember, everyone else is in the same boat.
What if I don't get any matches?
While over 70% of participants get at least one match, sometimes chemistry just doesn't click. We encourage trying multiple events - each one brings different people and opportunities.
How do I know if someone is interested?
Matching is completely private! You mark your interests on a scorecard, and we only share contact information when there's mutual interest. No awkward rejections.
What's the age range?
Most of our events attract participants in their late 20s to early 40s, but we welcome anyone 21+ looking for genuine connections. Age diversity often leads to interesting conversations!